Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Self Love Equals Learning to Love Others

~LOVE IS PATIENT~

Have you ever liked someone so much you'd do anything to get their attention? You lose yourself and become someone else, a person that that girl/boy likes just to please them. Or you find yourself waiting and waiting for that person and letting other candidates who are probably a match for you slip right on by, but you dont notice because your heart is focused on that one person. This is a BAD THING TO DO. I know from personal experience. My heart is attached to my best friend. He's always been there for me no matter what, very LOYAL. Now as a female I like to read into things (i'm sure all females have done that once in their life) thinking that his actions mean something more than what they are but I've come to realize that these actions are just what they are...a friend being a true friend. It's bad to read and read into things because then you begin to expect and when you dont get those expectations met, its a huge disappointment. So if you've ever done this or you're doing it now STOP IT. Take time to focus on yourself and dont focus on this person so much because nine times out of ten you arent always on their mind that much. If it's meant to happen it eventually will but dont rush it. Love is patient so if you try to rush it, it won't happen the way you thought it would because life is very unexpected.

Life is about love, living and a lot of caring. I hope you enjoyed this blog as much as I enjoyed sharing!!!

2 comments:

  1. Oh Tasha what you write is soo very true. As you know I have been there before just like many of us have. I remember being so wrapped in "him" that I let other possible good catches just slip on by. I also hurt someone by running back to him, I regret that very much. I asked him for forgiveness and I had many talks with God. We both know how that situation turned out...life is definantly unexpected.

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  2. Awww thanks, I'm glad that you can relate to this

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